since neatness has little meaning to her she is continuously receiving long dissertations on her slovenly naturo. It's gotten so that she dreads to see him come home. No, she does not wish a divorce. For six years she earned her own living as a stenographer. That was enough of that. Far better her husband's tirades and her life of semiindolence.

Not really trouble the re Her husband blamed her.

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Then there was the sex trouble. was no sex. Just none at all. He told her that before marriage his sex life had been a very active one. But she had no appeal. When they first married he had made a great effort, but she could not achieve vaginal orgasm. It was necessary to achieve clitoral orgasm. For this he soon lost enthusiasm. In her effort to reawaken his interest she tried all the slickmagazine advice on how to hold a man. She dressed in the most seductive slumber attire, properly scented. But his response was merely to roll over and promptly go to sleep.

What did she want me to do? First of all, get her husband to quit criticizing her household habits. And could I get him to want a sex life? When I asked why, she replied that she didn't know exactly. Wasn't it terribly abnormal for a couple not to have sex relations?

Her experience with sex was not involved. She had had a deep crush on her roommate all of her four years of college. On occasion they would crawl into bed with each other and stimulate each other to orgasm. But most of the time it was just a very real and meaningful relationship. Before marriage she had tried sex with four different mon. All of them had been clitoral stimulation because of her fear of pregnancy. In marriage she found that she preferred clitoral stimulation. When she first found that her husband did not find her attractive sho tried one affair. But she still could not achieve a vaginal orgasm. And anyway, sex did not mean much to her. She was really interested in a sex life with her husband to keep him from straying. As far as she was concerned, really and deeply, she didn't miss it too much. What desires she had she could satisfy with occasional masturbation.

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